Inspirational Monday: Figure out who you are first!

Hey hey everyone!
Today I bring you an empowering quote! I see so many young girls jumping from guy to guy because they’re scared of being many of them living just for someone else and not really knowing how to be on their own..thinking actually they can’t be alone…
I used to be like that. I spent 5 years of my life in two relationships (one was 4 years long and the second one almost a year) just because I was scared of being alone. And not just any 5 years. No, they were my first five years of adulthood. I was 18 when I had my first boyfriend and until I was 23 I had not been single. And I’m telling you, it wasn’t all that easy.
I think everyone should figure out who they are, before trying to be with someone else, because that won’t work! Ok, I don’t know everything about who I am…but I have the basics. I know who I am…and figuring out what I’m going to do with myself is just a matter of time.
Don’t rush into something without being sure you’re not doing it because you’re scared. You are worth more than that. You should live for yourself first, you’ll have enough time to live for others when you get married and/or have children!!
Have a great week guys!



  1. Anonymous
    18. December 2014 / 5:15 pm

    This is so true, if people knew themselves better before jumping into relationships, they would also stay together and there would not be so many broken hearts everywhere!


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